I am NOT a victim. Have I heard insults, mockery, put-downs? Of course. It's part of life. Too much censorship comes at the expense of loving, well-meaning people simply because one or two individuals' feelings might somehow be hurt, no matter how ill-informed. Most barbs come from people who love me.
If I find my identity in Christ, how can I be offended?
Labeling oneself as a victim has the opposite of the intended effect. So, let's rip up the victim card.
Knock it off.
Here's what Os Guinness, a Brit, says in The Case for Civility:
Do they not know that those who portray themselves as victims come to perceive themselves as victims and then to paralyze themselves as victims? In the late 1980s, when the Moral Majority was faltering, certain leaders of the Religious Right deliberately passed around the slogan that Christians were a “small persecuted minority,” victimized by the liberal elites—and did so just as other activist groups were giving up the rhetoric of the victim card.
Such tactics of the Religious Right are foolish, ineffectual, and downright anti-Christian.
Christians are as close to a majority community as any group in America; what their fellow Christians are facing today in China, North Korea, Burma, and Sudan is real persecution.
Psychologically, victim-playing is dangerous because it represents what Nietzsche called “the politics of the tarantula,” a base appeal to resentment. But worst of all, it is spiritually hypocritical, for nothing so contradicts their claim to represent “Christian values” as their refusal to follow the teaching and example of Jesus of Nazareth by playing the victim card and finding an excuse not to love their enemies. Shame, shame, shame on such people; and woe, woe, woe to such tactics.